Dear Crass: An arminian and calvinist seek godly wife
The following two letters were recently received, on the same day, with two different
We at the Salty Cee have decided this is clearly divine providence, and thus have sought to profit
Dear Calvinist in Cleveland,
I am flattered you chose to ask me for my advice.
Please note that I give it freely and willingly to all who seek it, and am so happy you decided to reach out to me on this matter.
Is it possible that you are being too… picky?
Perhaps God has someone waiting
Could it be that you are, even now, being drawn to the woman of your dreams, but you’re avoiding her because of some small detail you’re not quite sure about?
So what if she’s not your cookie cutter idea of a future mate? If she’s there and wanting to be a part of your life, why would you choose to avoid her?
To be clear, I’m not suggesting you lower your standards, but maybe it’s time to re-evaluate how you’re looking for a wife and pray that God
Or just marry the first girl who will have you. That’s basically what I did.
Please help. I’ve been praying for years that God would provide a wife for me, but I’m still single! I consistently deal with feelings of loneliness and sadness. What do you suggest I do?
An Arminian in Amarillo